Stop playing the blame game

We all know people who have relegated themselves to living some half-developed life, meanwhile nursing a long-past resentment or irrational choice that continually holds them back. Maybe they blame their upbringing – the habits they feel are too ingrained or what they see as the insurmountable challenge of getting beyond obesity and/or health conditions they've accepted over the years. Some people feel they’re too far gone to get up again. Others blame their uncooperative spouses or their kids and the chaos of family life. Still other people tell themselves progress just isn't possible given their financial situation, work schedule, or aggregate life demands. They’re already juggling too much and can’t give up any part of the routine. They can’t find it in themselves to simplify their act, so to speak, or just renounce it entirely to search for a better way. In other words, some folks can’t find their way out of the box because they refuse to visualize anything but the enclosure around them.

Are You Waiting For A Financial Breakthrough?

Did you know that the common prayer that's requested from many people is that God provide a great deal of money to have things and to be able to have a blessed life. But did you know that you are already blessed? 

It’s true! We don’t have to ask for the blessings God has provided us.  We have everything we need already because of the work of Jesus Christ on the cross. What we need to do is reach out in faith and trust that God loves us so much that we never have to be without anything.

We Are Powerful Beyond Measure

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us."

20 Tips for a Positive New Year

I am so excited about 2013.  This is a year of FABulousness... A year of abundance, peace, love, finances, business success and more. I've learned that a positive mind breeds positive results, which is what we need to stay focus on our goals.  Here are "20 Tips for a Positive New Year", go out and be FAB.

Going Through Hell? – Keep Going!

I am one who is always in a FABulous mood... Why, because I know that I can't change the cycle of life! You see in life there will be ups and downs, circles and turns and other things that you have absolutely no control over. Why? I'm glad you asked, Simply because emotions are contagious, and how you focus your attention can either keep you stuck on how you feel or switch gears to where you want to go. It is our attention that is sitting in the driver's seat of our mind. Most people seem not to know this. They think that if they keep talking about something, resisting it, pushing it away, worrying about it, or even thinking about it, somehow they can get rid of it or prevent what they fear from manifesting.

This is just the opposite of what you should do if you want to free your mind from stress, overwhelm, worry, or fear. As Winston Churchill said, "If you are going through hell, keep going!"

If the truth is told, much of the pain, suffering, and dissatisfaction many people feel is self-inflicted because we are ignorant of how powerful our attention is to direct our physiology and reactions. We focus all too often on what we don't want. This will keep you stuck on the very thing you don't want, so much so that we typically no longer know what we do want or what we really value.

Another way that we get ourselves into trouble is by hanging around negative people who radiate emotions such as fear, anger, hatred, or judgment. Even people who refuse to look for what they can be grateful for and cling to sadness and depression can drag you down because emotions are contagious! Likewise joy, appreciation, and gratitude are contagious. They're just not as prevalent in our society yet, I hope.

When we decide we want to get out of hell-the jail we put our minds in-we can learn how to release old emotional residues and shift our focus to where we want to go. It's when we keep expecting the worst, keep our attention on negative news and negative people, and hold ourselves back for fear of disappointment that we stay, well, disappointed!

Can you see how backwards this is? It's time to learn how to free your mind and be willing to live the adventure of your life instead of simply surviving and tormenting yourself. Science is showing how we are assigning the meaning to our lives. We may as well create a storyline that helps us to grow and flourish instead of making ourselves suffer through hell on earth.

So if you are going through hell on earth, keep going!

Thank you Dr. Valencia Ray for this FABulous point of view on life! Is has made me stronger and I continue to life by the quote from Mr. Winston Churchill!

Be you and live life! Just keep it real, and keep it FABulous.